What do you WANT? Part 4: Community

This is the last article in a 4-part series. If you have read  Part 1: Social, Part 2: Skills, and Part 3: Competition, skip down to the Part 3: COMMUNITY section by clicking here. Otherwise, keep reading. It’s the new year – typically a popular time to reassess and take stock, but this year we’re a little wiser…Have you actually taken

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What do you WANT? Part 4: Community

The Ultimate WCS Etiquette Checklist

Etiquette is a part of the culture of social dancing that is often taken for granted. We all assume that since we feel like we are doing fine, that others will perceive us the same. Everyone assumes the advice applies to everyone but themselves. …but are you SURE? You may have heard some of these tips before, but

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The Ultimate WCS Etiquette Checklist

Want to score more “good” dances?

Watch this 3-minute video pep talk to give you some realistic coaching and encouragement when you are feeling disappointed with your “score” at the end of a dance party.Watch the video: Want to know how you can instantly score more “good” dances you have each night? Easy. Change your criteria for what qualifies as “good”.If you

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Want to score more “good” dances?

OMG, I’m WAY too intimidated to dance with THEM!

Watch this 3-minute video pep talk to give you some realistic coaching and encouragement about asking higher level dancers to dance. Transcript below. Watch the video: Do you have an “untouchables” list? You know, that imaginary list you make up of dancers in your community that are usually better than you that you don’t ask

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OMG, I’m WAY too intimidated to dance with THEM!

Tactical Social Dancing Part 3

Part 1 and Part 2 of this series have garnered a massive response – when I opened up the floor to take suggestions for more tactical questions, people really unloaded!    Well, I’m honoured, because that’s exactly what we’re here for. Not just this article series, but ALL the Swing Literacy programs: to fill a need and

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Tactical Social Dancing Part 3

Tactical Social Dancing Part 2

When it comes to social dancing, many dancers ask us questions like “How should I handle it when…?” or “What do I do if…?”   These are Tactical questions. In Part 1 of this series, I defined the difference between Techniques, Tactics, and Strategies which are important distinctions to read about to help you get

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Tactical Social Dancing Part 2

Tactical Social Dancing: Part 1

“What should you do if…”, “What happens when…”, “How can I handle…”, “How do I deal with…”   These are all questions that students of all levels batter their teachers with. They are tactical questions – they ask for circumstantial advice, or recommendations for particular situations that have to do with not just the physical

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Tactical Social Dancing: Part 1

How to deal with dance partners who hurt you

I recently had a set of privates with an older male leader (let’s call him Phil) who was a very nice man and well liked in the community but has received complaints from followers that he hurt them.    Many followers would say that they can relate – this is a common issue in many

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How to deal with dance partners who hurt you

Build Better-Balanced Conversations

What does it take to have a WCS dance where both partners contribute to the fun?   As a leader, do you wish playful followers would let you lead more? Or wonder why more followers don’t play with you they way they do when they dance with other leaders?   As a follower, do you

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Build Better-Balanced Conversations

The Evolution of Play in WCS

West Coast Swing offers a unique opportunity for both partners to express themselves and co-create in amazing “dance conversations”. But it wasn’t always balanced or amiable. So how did we get here?    This article describes the journey of how the the improvised conversation of West Coast Swing social dancing has evolved dramatically over the

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The Evolution of Play in WCS